The SEO Meetup Group I organize typically gets a few new people applying to be members each week. I “approve” about 50% of them. I used to auto-approve everyone and it made for a nice impressive number of “members”, but most of those people weren’t really “SEO people”. They were either looking for free advice for their one website, or free basic training, or they were recruiters or meetup groupies or who knows what. Just under half were legit.

Anyhow, maybe almost a year ago I paired down the member list and put in place a speed bump. You have to answer a few basic questions about SEO. You don’t necessarily have to work for a local agency or have 10 years in the field…  But if you don’t even answer the questions, I will assume you aren’t the type of person our group is looking for. A description of the purpose of the group and who the right type of person is is provided, and judgment is up to me. You don’t have to be an expert, but just not someone who is going to waste everyone else’s time trying to get free advice on your meta tags.

Okay with that aside, I got an email from a guy I recently approved. Seems like a very nice guy, and has some level of experience with affiliate marketing, SEO, eBay and various other online marketing concepts. He wrote me an email basically wanting to see if the group would provide the type of benefit he is looking for. I appreciate this. If you are looking for something that is not what our purpose is, than its best not to waste everyone’s time. Our group is for people in the Baltimore SEO community to network, share ideas, etc. Its not free advice for small business owners. Its not free SEO training.  Since we’ve put this in place our meetups have really improved in their quality and relevance.  More depth and value.

So here is an excerpt from this guy’s email to me:

…Hope this is enough for you to get an idea of where I’m coming from, and can tell me if we can mutually profit from me coming to your meeting???

and then here was my response:

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Happy to hear from you.  I’m glad you are doing well with your various online ventures and wish you continued success.

Not sure I completely understand your goal in what you’d like to get from the SEO Meetup… but let me share my take on this…  I would suggest that you view this group more as a networking opportunity rather than a place to get training or free advice.  That’s not really what its for.  If you are looking to meet other people in the SEO industry in the Baltimore area, have a drink and talk shop than its worth your time.  If you are looking for recommendations for your specific website(s) or training than that’s not really what our group is all about.

Most members in the group spend a ton of time reading SEO blogs, using social media apps like Twitter, etc. so they already have lots of places to get news and read tips, etc.  Our meetups are for making connections and meeting people.  Networking.  Sure some nice ideas and tips can come from that, but typically only after you make a connection.  If you go up to somebody and say “Hi I’m Joe… what’s your best link building secret” you aren’t likely to get much from that.  If instead you make a connection and form a true relationship then down the line you might find yourself with a question or idea you want to run by someone and now you have a larger network of professionals in the SEO industry that you can leverage to help you out.

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Was that tone a bit rough?  What are your thoughts on in-person networking events in the SEO industry?


“Meet the Baltimore Internet Marketers” was the theme of last night’s Meetup event held at the ETC in Canton, thanks the kind donation of space from R2i (thanks Page!).

This is the first event I’ve organized in roughly six months for this group, which was way overdue (I’ve been busy) but better late than never, right? Anyhow, we should get that back on track now.

We had a great turnout. I didn’t count exactly, but we were in the 25 to 30 attendee range. I think it was 3 ladies and the rest were a bunch of scruffly guys (myself included)… which was actually more gender-diverse than previous meetups. Poor Lori and Kathleen.

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